Simple steps to beginning an at-home preschool

I could be wrong, but I don’t think my mom’s generation felt the pressure for “preschool” like we do today. But today – 13 is the new 25, and preschool is the new kindergarten. Not that I am downplaying what you can teach an eager 3-year-old, but I’m giving myself at least permission to take a proverbial breath, and realize it might just be possible for Sam to get into college if  he never experienced a certified preschool program.

In the words of my mother-in-law (a retired kindergarten teacher): “His work right now is play!”

With that said, if you’re willing and you have the time, short and scheduled “preschool moments” can be loads of fun for mom and a 2-4 year-old. Last year was our first with anything resembling preschool. Here are some things we’ve learned that we will continue this year as he’s three:

  • If possible, find a friend or two. It’s not even necessary that he/she be on the exact same “level” as your child. It will lend accountability, feel more official, and provide extra hands to garner supplies/watch younger kiddos/teach lessons.
  • Meet two regular days a week, and don’t feel the need to do more than 25-30 minutes of planned events.
  • Make sure your time includes singing, exercises, and crafts or experiments. For our time, after about 5-10 minutes of writing/reading/sitting, I do some sort of break, even if it is only a minute or two of “silliness.”
  • If you can plan for a month ahead, including making copies and a supply list for projects.

We follow this format every time:

  • Sit in our chairs, say what we’re all thankful for today, and pray. (We pass around a giant smiley face as we share our blessings.)
  • Pledge of Allegiance. (They love taking turns holding the flag.)
  • Sing our “ABC” song.
  • Do a language activity.
  • Do a math activity.
  • Choose one from crafts or science experiments.
  • Interspersed amongst these, we do exercises, dance, sing children’s songs, paint a picture to send someone in the mail, stand up and stretch, etc. I add in one of these very quickly when I begin sensing they are “done.” It’s my opinion that building confidence and love of learning is more important than “gritting our teeth and finishing the lesson” at this young age.

I once read somewhere that a preschool teacher recommended, “Don’t get so overwhelming designing the ‘perfect’ curriculum. Just pick something and go with it for a few months. Once you begin, you can always rework it, add to it, or change it.” I think that is excellent advice. Once you have the shell of a curriculum, here are some other things you can add to it:

  • special days – pajamas, pancake day, color days, field trips, etc
  • show and tell – they love this!
  • special guests
  • making each student bring a pencil box/bookbag with an exact supply list

I know I said this, but two of the most important things, in my opinion:

  1. I strongly believe that the best thing you can offer a 2-4 year-old in an “academic” environment is the joy of learning. Act excited about anything they love. Praise them infinitely for each thing they work on. Make a point of reminding them to show Mommy/Daddy/Grandma what they made and learned today. Greet them with a smile and hug. Thank them for coming every day. If your child and his friends begin to enjoy learning, what a great gift you have given them!
  2. Plan ahead. Even if each “session” has only three activities, plan them ahead of time. I would say plan out at least one month before you begin. Even if it’s not perfect, if it’s workable, go with it for  month. I know from experience there is nothing worse than opening your eyes in the morning to realize, “Ughh…it’s preschool day. What are we going to do today??”

Does doing a at-home preschool excite you? What activities work best for your child?


4 thoughts on “Simple steps to beginning an at-home preschool

  1. I would add that we underestimate how much preschoolers love to do the same thing over and over. They feel comfortable when a routine is followed and they feel confident as they repeat an already learned song or Bible verse. Tell the same story for a month and they will love filling in the details they remember.

  2. There’s a whole lotta wisdom in what your mom-in-law said! As one who has been where you are, and homeschooled, starting with my own pre-school (back when dinosaurs roamed the earth), fun and love of learning is the name of the game. My oldest STILL remembers a tree rhyme we made up together back in preschool, and he’ll be 21 in December. Standardized tests can’t measure that! 😉

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  4. I’ve been pulling from so many printables and curriculums online (all free YAY!) and doing things here and there with my son. He’s only 27 months so a lot of it flops miserably…but he already knows all of his letters and can count to 10 (and 16, but he skips 11-15 lol). I just keep trying but try a unit-study/themed approach. One theme every few weeks or so. It’s working well…

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